Sabina wrote:Illusions are usually created when one cannot (doesn't want to, is afraid to, etc.) deal with reality.
Reality is painful, so.. illusions to the rescue!
Of course, creating an illusion rather than facing a reality is a complete waste of one's time.
The sooner an illusion is dispelled, the better.
The thing about reality is, even if it hurts, facing that pain is always better, because it's the only way to true happiness.
With an illusion one may succeed in temporally "hiding" the pain, but in that case the happiness, or the "good times" are also nothing but an illusion...
I'm of two minds reading this comment, Sabina. On one hand, I cannot say that living in an illusory life is healthy...but there are times one must do so to maintain sanity.
Consider a pain medication like morphine. When I was dealing with a remarkably painful illness, morphine provided an illusion of sorts. It allowed me to think that I did not hurt. Did it resolve the illness? No...but it did provide a breathing space, a way to escape the pain. It put some distance between me and the fact I was in danger of losing a limb. On one level, I knew how serious my illness was, but buffered by the drugs, I could think about other things.
The same goes for self-created illusions. There are times and situations that are just too painful for a mind to absorb without shattering. I have lived through several! By building illusions, we can give our minds the space and time it needs to be able to handle and process the situation. Buffered by illusion, we can at least pretend that things are okay at home, or work. It's a lie and at some level we know it...but like morphine, illusions can give us a way to not-think about our agony.
The flip side of this, of course, is that eventually you
do have to face reality. There came a point at which I had to find a way to work around the pain in my leg without the buffering effect of morphine. And there comes a time when we need to let the illusions slide away.
While one cannot truly live in an opiate cocoon or an illusory world, there are times when both give the mind/body a needed respite.